The relationSHAPE™ 12 Communication Agreements
These 12 Communication Agreements are designed so that you can easily remember that each interaction is shaped by you, and that you have the power to engage with others so that everyone feels listened to, heard, and understood, including YOU!
1. I accept responsibility for what I say, how I say it and how I feel.
2. I identify my true communication intentions.
3. I express clear, complete messages and appreciations.
4. I acknowledge the feelings of others without having to agree with them.
5. I honor my needs and the needs of others.
6. I listen in order to recognize and respond to the needs behind what others say to me.
7. I use open ended questions to encourage communication.
8. I value my right to make requests and the right of others to make requests.
9. I consider my body language.
10. I monitor my tone of voice.
11. I choose to react or respond in any situation.
12. I apply these skills to each interaction each day.
Created by Linda Williams, 2006
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DISCLAIMER: The concepts and strategies shared on this relationSHAPE™ website are researched based and have been successfully used for over 40 years.
We provide information, not specific advice. Our goal is to provide you with strategies that will help you improve communication in your relationships.
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